Lonely looking for dating

11-Jun-2017 20:12

I also liked that the married women on this site seemed confident and directed.Most of them were busy in other parts of their lives, but wanted an adult relationship with a man who wasn’t going to become clingy or controlling.Besides, I was desperate to smile, feel good again and fulfill my urges.Wouldn’t you know it, there are dating sites filled with beautiful women who are willing to accept a man carrying a ball and chain. At least, I used to be before my personality took a sabbatical during the stagnant stages of my marriage. The first hundred or so sites (I am not kidding) that I tried were less than inspiring.Some sites even had fake profiles simply there to entice users to sign up. Other sites that looked promising charged an arm and a leg to join their community, but once in, there were no safeguards to one’s privacy.I did not want my wife or anyone else I know finding out about my extramarital adventures. I was convinced that there was not a single married dating site that was safe, discreet and did not try to trick me.

That was true for sometime, but only at the beginning. We couldn’t agree on vacation destinations, home improvements or the color of our towels. there isn’t much to say as it didn’t seem to exist anymore.

As I began reading profiles, I was being introduced to women who didn’t need it all, they just wanted what they had to be fun and exciting. In most cases, I found the women to less than forthright.

I felt the site’s vetting system was a bit flawed – too many women who didn’t have the most important aspect in common with me: married but looking.

Yet, I had needs that weren’t filled by my marriage and that is when I decided to look outside the marriage to fulfill these needs.

I created this blog in hopes that you won’t have to go through the same trial and tribulations I have in finding the perfect dating site for married people.

That was true for sometime, but only at the beginning. We couldn’t agree on vacation destinations, home improvements or the color of our towels. there isn’t much to say as it didn’t seem to exist anymore.As I began reading profiles, I was being introduced to women who didn’t need it all, they just wanted what they had to be fun and exciting. In most cases, I found the women to less than forthright.I felt the site’s vetting system was a bit flawed – too many women who didn’t have the most important aspect in common with me: married but looking.Yet, I had needs that weren’t filled by my marriage and that is when I decided to look outside the marriage to fulfill these needs.I created this blog in hopes that you won’t have to go through the same trial and tribulations I have in finding the perfect dating site for married people.These women enjoy being married but flirting with men like me!